Do any of my followers use Implanon or an IUD as opposed to birth control pills? If so, what was your experience with it and would you recommend either?

My girlfriend uses Implanon. You can find her blog at You can ask her about the experience of putting it in and how it effects her body. I know she would recommend it and I do as well. When “used perfectly” (aka you didnt dig the implant out of your arm with a spoon and then have all of the sex) it has a higher success rate than condoms. You can use condoms and the implant in tandem if you prefer. As for us we don’t use condoms with it and so far we have never had a scare. I am not telling you to have condomless sex if you have the implant, I am saying it is an option if you feel comfortable with your partner and you’re both std free. Don’t be a fucking idiot. Use condoms if you aren’t 100% sure you’re both clean and/or aren’t willing to take care of/abort a child in the event it happens. Std’s are trying to get you like a brony chasing a rainbow dash fleshlight. Use your brain.

So far the only downside that I have ever really observed is that her periods are rather sporadic and irregular. If you get it in I’m fairly certain they tell you that you may stop your periods all together after a few months in. She’s coming up to that threshold so we’re crossing our fingers. The best part of it all? It’s completely free of charge if you’re in college! (In CA at least, you will want to consult your campus’ student health center for your states legislature regarding it) They will give you all the information you need to prep for it. You have to do something like be off other birthcontrol for a few weeks to start. Idk I’m a man and I have a penis and the patriarchy wont give me access to male birth control because god forbid *insert penis euphemism here* grumble grumble

As girlfriend to tumblr user donutsoffury, I can attest to this response.

Anyone at all who needs advice or info on Implanon/Nexplanon/BC in general, I’m here for you.


found this gem in the 1996 Cornell Women’s Handbook. it’s what to say when a guy tries to get out of using a condom



found this gem in the 1996 Cornell Women’s Handbook. it’s what to say when a guy tries to get out of using a condom


jsbirds asked:

3 and how would you define it?

3. Have you taken someones virginity?

In the cultural definition, in that I was their first penis-in-vagina penetration experience which ended in their orgasm, yes, twice.

I’m kinda like a fairy godslut.

But both of those partners had had sexual experience in other areas (heavy petting, oral, sexting, etc.).  All that was left was the technical “putting it in”.  This is why I reject the idea of virginity, because it puts pressure on one specific sexual act (and one only between a penis and a vagina), diminishes the value of other acts that are just as pleasing/intimate (or harmful, if non-consensual), and doesn’t apply to experiences alternative to heterosexual ones. 



  • 1. Would you have sex with the last person you text messaged?
  • 2. You talked to an ex today, correct?
  • 3. Have you taken someones virginity?
  • 4. Is trust a big issue for you?
  • 5. Did you hang out with the person you like recently?
  • 6. What are you excited for?
  • 7. What happened tonight?
  • 8. Do you think it’s disgusting when girls get really wasted?
  • 9. Is confidence cute?
  • 10. What is the last beverage you had?
  • 11. How many people of the opposite sex do you fully trust?
  • 12. Do you own a pair of skinny jeans?
  • 13. What are you gonna do Saturday night?
  • 14. What are you going to spend money on next?
  • 15. Are you going out with the last person you kissed?
  • 16. Do you think you’ll change in the next 3 months?
  • 17. Who do you feel most comfortable talking to about anything?
  • 18. The last time you felt broken?
  • 19. Have you had sex today?
  • 20. Are you starting to realize anything?
  • 21. Are you in a good mood?
  • 22. Would you ever want to swim with sharks?
  • 23. Are your eyes the same color as your dad’s?
  • 24. What do you want right this second?
  • 25. What would you say if the person you love/like kissed another girl/boy?
  • 26. Is your current hair color your natural hair color?
  • 27. Would you be able to date someone who doesn’t make you laugh?
  • 28. What was the last thing that made you laugh?
  • 29. Do you really, truly miss someone right now?
  • 30. Does everyone deserve a second chance?
  • 31. Honestly, do you hate the last boy you were talking to?
  • 32. Does the person you have feelings for right now, know you do?
  • 33. Are you one of those people who never drinks soda?
  • 34. Listening to?
  • 35. Do you ever write in pencil anymore?
  • 36. Do you know where the last person you kissed is?
  • 37. Do you believe in love at first sight?
  • 38. Who did you last call?
  • 39. Who was the last person you danced with?
  • 40. Why did you kiss the last person you kissed?
  • 41. When was the last time you ate a cupcake?
  • 42. Did you hug/kiss one of your parents today?
  • 43. Ever embarrass yourself in front of a crush?
  • 44. Do you tan in the nude?
  • 45. If you could, would you take back your last kiss?
  • 46. Did you talk to someone until you fell asleep last night?
  • 47. Who was the last person to call you?
  • 48. Do you sing in the shower?
  • 49. Do you dance in the car?
  • 50. Ever used a bow and arrow?
  • 51. Last time you got a portrait taken by a photographer?
  • 52. Do you think musicals are cheesy?
  • 53. Is Christmas stressful?
  • 54. Ever eat a pierogi?
  • 55. Favorite type of fruit pie?
  • 56. Occupations you wanted to be when you were a kid?
  • 57. Do you believe in ghosts?
  • 58. Ever have a Deja-vu feeling?
  • 59. Take a vitamin daily?
  • 60. Wear slippers?
  • 61. Wear a bath robe?
  • 62. What do you wear to bed?
  • 63. First concert?
  • 64. Wal-Mart, Target or Kmart?
  • 65. Nike or Adidas?
  • 66. Cheetos Or Fritos?
  • 67. Peanuts or Sunflower seeds?
  • 68. Favorite Taylor Swift song?
  • 69. Ever take dance lessons?
  • 70. Is there a profession you picture your future spouse doing?
  • 71. Can you curl your tongue?
  • 72. Ever won a spelling bee?
  • 73. Have you ever cried because you were so happy?
  • 74. What is your favorite book?
  • 75. Do you study better with or without music?
  • 76. Regularly burn incense?
  • 77. Ever been in love?
  • 78. Who would you like to see in concert?
  • 79. What was the last concert you saw?
  • 80. Hot tea or cold tea?
  • 81. Tea or coffee?
  • 82. Favorite type of cookie?
  • 83. Can you swim well?
  • 84. Can you hold your breath without holding your nose?
  • 85. Are you patient?
  • 86. DJ or band, at a wedding?
  • 87. Ever won a contest?
  • 88. Ever have plastic surgery?
  • 89. Which are better black or green olives?
  • 90. Opinions on sex before marriage?
  • 91. Best room for a fireplace?
  • 92. Do you want to get married?